Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony: A not so perfect love story

When news first broke about Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony's marriage falling apart, I have to admit I was shocked.  Growing up, they were always seen as such a perfect, latino couple.  Even though they both had their share of significant others, they were idolized and mesmerizing to see as such a powerhouse couple.

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When they got married in June 2004 in J. Lo's Beverly Hills home, it was intimate and secretive.  I guess this is why no one outside their circle really was aware of the roller coaster marriage they both endured.  As high profile celebrities, they seemed to have kept their problems out of the public eye.

US Weekly reports that:

"At issue: Anthony's raging jealousy over Lopez's career, his compulsion to control everything from her business endeavors and even her famous wardrobe, and, according to multiple sources, at least one extra-marital affair in 2009.

And despite her ultra-glamourous, ultra-confident persona in the public eye, Lopez "actually has low self-esteem," one pal explains. "And Marc really played into that insecurity. That's why she put up with his abuse for such a long time.""

As wedding and event planners, and generally people who love to love and see others in love, it is sad when those you've admired as a powerhouse couple decide to call it quits.  When it comes to celebrity couples, though, it's unfortunate that break ups and marriages seem happen in the blink of an eye.  While we believe in upholding your vows and commitment to one another, sometimes it just wasn't meant to be.  If you've exhausted all your avenues to reconcile and/or if there are signs of abuse, we believe these are signs that this relationship may not be working.  

I know we're not relationship experts or psychologists, but these are just our opinions as members of the wedding industry. ;)  

Granted, no one really knows all the details involved

in their high profile split, but what are your thoughts?

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Gabriela is the partner and certified wedding/special event consultant for No Limit Events LLC as well as the main writer for the company blog, No Limit Events LLC: Bloggin’ It. She enjoys sharing fun and unique wedding ideas, which include helpful wedding and party related posts, inspirational photos and advice for those planning special celebrations. Gabriela lives in New Jersey with her husband and business partner, Justin, and their 2 lovable cats. Planning a luxurious wedding or special party? Please visit her blog and website for specials and helpful advice.